‘Tis no secret: I’m an introvert. I can remember as a child playing for hours alone, and not minding it a bit. A rarely remember feeling lonely. Anytime I’ve been in a crowded room full of people I don’t know well, I look for a way out to find some peace and quiet. If that’s not possible, I find one person who I can engage in conversation with until I can escape.
When I heard about The Introvert Advantage, I was curious. I had never thought about advantages or disadvantages to an attribute of temperament, although I’ve long been fascinated with all aspects of temperament. I found the book generally interesting, although I was already familiar with much of the facts presented (I have a master’s in counseling), but for anyone who is introverted and not as familiar with personality theory would likely find it quite informative.
One of the things I found interesting is the author repeatedly makes reference to the fact that many introverts feel uncomfortable, embarrassed or like an outcast for their introversion. I never felt any of these things. I do remember during high school thinking it would be more desirable to be extroverted (or sociable – that having a wide circle of friends meant I was more accepting and caring than having a few intimate friends). Otherwise, I’ve always been fine with how I was wired.
Also of note, I found the writing style frequently dry, even when the information was pretty interesting. I think it was written in the style of many of my college textbooks – informative, but bland.
The verdict: If you’re interested in personality/temperament, or if you’re an introvert and curious about what that means, it’s worth the read. Otherwise, pass.
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